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b2B2 Upper-Intermediate EnglishConditionals and hypotheticalsGrammarabout 18 min

Wish, if only and would rather

Express wishes, regrets and preferences precisely with wish, if only, would rather, it’s time and as if.

In this lesson you will

  • Use wish/if only with past, past perfect and would
  • Use would rather and it’s (high) time + past
  • Use as if / as though for unreal comparisons

Learn

wish / if only + past (present), + past perfect (past), + would (annoyance / wanting change in others), + could (ability): I wish I could stay longer.

would rather + infinitive (your preference): I’d rather stay in. would rather + someone + past (preference about another person): I’d rather you didn’t* smoke here.*

It’s (high / about) time + past = it should happen now: It’s time we left. It’s high time you got* a job.*

as if / as though + past for unreal comparisons: He talks as if* he knew everything* (he doesn’t).

StructureExample
wish + pastI wish I lived by the sea.
wish + past perfectI wish I hadn’t sent that email.
wish + wouldI wish the neighbours would be quieter.
would rather + pastI’d rather you called first.
it’s time + pastIt’s time we went home.
as if + pastShe acts as if she owned the place.

Examples

  • If only I’d taken the other job!
  • I’d rather you didn’t tell anyone.
  • It’s about time the council fixed this road.
  • You look as if you’d seen a ghost.

Vocabulary

would rather

would prefer

high time

definitely the right time (and late)

as if

in a way that suggests

annoyance

a feeling of being irritated

preference

what you like better

Practice

1 / 8

I’d rather you ___ me the truth.

Speaking

Talk about things you wish were different, regrets, preferences (I’d rather…), things it’s high time you did, and people who act as if…

Recording isn’t available in this browser. You can still practise: say your answer aloud, then type what you said.

Writing

Write a humorous complaint (120–150 words) about your neighbours or flatmates using wish, would rather and it’s time.

0 / 120+ words

Lesson quiz

1 / 5

I wish I ___ drive.

Review

Key points

  • wish + past / past perfect / would / could.
  • would rather + verb; would rather + person + past.
  • It’s (high/about) time + past.
  • as if / as though + past.

What you learned

  • ✓ I can express wishes and regrets precisely.
  • ✓ I can state preferences.
  • ✓ I can make unreal comparisons.

Grammar reference: Wish and if only